it comes up again and again.
age and marriage.
age and parenting.
really age and anything.
i hate the phrase "your too young to understand"
i hear it at my work.
and its like... well first your an idiot.
what the hell are you talking about that you think i wouldnt "understand" it.
maybe my response wouldnt be "ya... me too"
and then being young and married.
it snot like i got knocked up and got married.
I fell in love, dated for 2 years. got married...
and have been happily married for 1 year and 3 months.
and now we are thinking of children.
I mean i am goin to wait because we need to wait.
but Cas is ready for children,
she has the means for a stable enviroment.
and happy home.
and she is fully covered TWICE on anything having to do with firtility right now.
so why not jump on the chance to do EVERYTHING YOU CAN to get pregnent?
i get that we have "all the time in the world"
and that we are "young"
but when you are having issues getting pregnant... like cas is.
its not going to get better. ya know?
so taking all of the FREE opertunities she has to get pregnant on her own
its understandable right? its reasonable.
we arent jumping over nothing, we arent being spontaneous with some random guy.
we didnt get pregnant on some one night stand at 18 and get married.
we fell in LOVE "early" i guess.
we got married "young" i guess
and we want kids before we are 30. which is young... i guess
i just dont see eye to eye i guess.
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Honestly... its the devil.
The devil has been attacking the family for YEARS and now, its working. Marriage is a joke now, divorce is a lunch date and kids? pshhh. Who needs the burden of children right?? Its really sad and it breaks my heart to live in a society where people think the family unit is something you FINISH your life off with. Ugh.
i feel you. i definately dont see eye to eye and Im tired of the whole "your VERY young" comments. Im not that freaking young. Im not old, but im no baby either.
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